This past week we got some extra dirt in my landscaped area and three piles of the great big rocks. It is going to look so great in the spring when I can plant more stuff. I got a few clearance grasses at Lowe's to start with. We will still need to move the smoker off of the deck and down to this area here in the next week.
I started and finished my first crafty project for the house: two window cornices for the living room. I have wanted to make some since a friend in Evansville made some of her own, then the model home had some. So, my dad built the wood frame and I covered them - which was a lot harder than I thought it'd be. They turned out great though - I am happy with them!
So, I had a very pity party kind of week. I am lonely and it became magnified when Em came home from the Jr. Scout meeting that she had looked so forward to going to. She was just bummed. She misses her group from home that she'd been with for years. Of course these girls all know each other and Em was sad that she didn't have a friend there. It broke my heart. The same day I got a call from my mom saying that her and my dad are going to be here on Monday through Wednesday - which was a total surprise! I was and am very excited! But, then I was irritated that they have to make a 9 hour drive in order to see us!! I got mad again about this whole situation - had my "it's not fair!" tantrum and a good cry that night and the next morning and felt a bit better. Dreary weather and 5 days worth of headaches haven't helped much either. I miss my girlfriends and even my acquaintances - seeing people I know almost everywhere I go. I am thankful that a phone call and texting and everything else makes my friends seem close still, but it is not the same as seeing them on a regular basis. And it is hard that communication with a lot of people have lessened and lessened. I know it is hard to be far away...and I've never been good at maintaining long distance friendships. Argh! So I definitely don't blame anyone - life is busy - and if you aren't in someones life regularly then it is hard to be intentional. 'Out of sight, out of mind' right? So sad, but so true. I am confident though that God will help us maintain friendships that are good for us and that He has amazing friendships planned for all of us here - patience is going to be necessary. Friendships don't develop overnight, right? I read in When the Boxes are Unpacked book this week:
"Who better than Christ would know what it's like to leave great fellowship and a home He loves, to come to a new strange place? I wonder if Christ ever got homesick for heaven?"
He is the One who will remain constant during this time in my life. No, I don't have my friends and family here, but I have Him ALL the time, any time - and He understands perfectly how I feel. He (even after my temper tantrum) provided these interactions/encouragements this week for me: He had Petrina send me a message telling me how she loves my blogs and how to remember that I have new friends here. She's even one who is in a similar situation as I am just moving here this summer...I am not the only one going through this type of thing - I need to remember this. I also met a mom at the bus stop this week who moved here from California this summer. MaryKay is so sweet and we got along perfectly - excited about this potential friendship! At the Spring Fling Thing meeting on Friday I met a mom who just moved here this summer too! The meeting was fun - I love event planning! LOL. I keep thinking it would be fun to have a get together for all of us newbies (new to the area in 2011 party)...must keep this in mind. I keep comparing this place to being away at college. Everyone is here from somewhere else, a lot are away from home and family, and are entering a new phase of life. I am tossing around the idea of starting a bunco group for the ladies in the neighborhood - there isn't one yet! And this morning in church I had a thought about doing a women's Bible study out of my home - I was just complaining that there aren't hardly any churches that have women's ministries and during the day studies going on. These are some ideas I've had, but not acted on at all - definitely a way to make some friends. Oh - we went out with Steve and Wendy and their girls on Friday night. She is the one I met on the online moms group and go to Transformation Church. We had a really great time!
Since we've moved in I have not had as much anxiety about our house in Indiana. Jeff and I have talked a lot about it and are accepting that it might be a long time before it sells. We also remember that we made sure that we could do this financially before we agreed to all of this. It is not going to be fun, but it is going to make us rely fully on Him for His provision. I can not believe how much 'favor' He has provided me over just this past week with buying certain things, finding certain deals, and being given huge discounts - I could call it just good luck or the right place at the right time or savvy shopping, but it is not. He is going to provide for us during this time. We have had a couple week lull in activity on the house. We've had a few showings this weekend though. Jeff and I certainly are not thrilled about having two houses payments, but we are at peace...and we are trusting. Evan was not heartbroken when we told him that we could not pay the almost $200 in fees just to JOIN boy scouts. (But we are looking in to Awana for him.) And the kids did not pout when we said we are going to get one family gift this year instead of gifts for everyone. It will be ok...we will follow Him closely, going without a few things so that we can continue to be a part of this plan He has for us.
Oh- please pray for safe travels for my parents who will be driving Sunday evening and Monday morning and then again on Wednesday evening and Thursday. Thanks!!!